Re: Wife or the race car

steven gregoire April 18th 2014, 11:51 am

Ill count my blessings. My Wife loves spending time with the whole family at the track. When im the one on the fence about buying a new Dominator, or gears for the dragster, she tells me to do whatever needs to be done to make it right. LUV that woman !

They are out there guys, don't settle !!!

Dave De April 18th 2014, 11:57 am

10shots,
Do you feel like you are being choked? Women can be territorial and this one is to the max. Whos house are you living at? If its yours it wont be after the wedding.
What I've heard "The first time a women marries for love the second time is for the money". Even if you are not wealthy it looks like you are about to be the meal ticket. Then there's the his and hers children. Your kids will never have a chance with this woman.
I read your post to my wife of 36 years and she agrees that you are headed for disaster. She also said that there are two sides to a story but if half of what you say is the real deal it still doesnt look good.

10SHOTS April 18th 2014, 12:23 pm

I'll talk about the living situation some , I have a place not as nice as hers , she wants to stay
Where she is because of the kids school , after her devorce her well off step dad and mom bought
Her place for her it's in her name and her and her family want me to invest 15000 dollars into it and it
Not have my name nowhere on it and they will pay the rest off

10SHOTS April 18th 2014, 12:28 pm

QtrWarrior wrote:
10SHOTS wrote:
windsor wrote:There are some bigger issues here than a race car and a tahoe. You need to sit down and talk...REAL talk about things, wants, needs from each other. There are six children involved here, who are the most important.

Jus' sayin [/quote
2 of them or mine and don't live with us , just visitation
But I'm not allowed to buy things for them and send to there
Moms with them , if I buy it it has to stay , and there mom only
Gets the child support , is that right

I'll answer this one...............

When my son was young, if I bought him something , it went where he wanted it... Here OR there.
Thankfully, we were all on the same page ( me, his mom and step dad).

You say she buys stuff for her kids... Does she buy stuff for your's too ??
IF it was me, she had better love MY kids just as much as she does hers...

She don't buy nothing big , I have to buy 4 wheelers and stuff like that for her kids , I can't buy one for them to send to there moms , she might buy a pair of shoes or a shirt or 2 but it has to stay there

steven gregoire April 18th 2014, 12:32 pm

want me to invest 15000 dollars into it and it
Not have my name nowhere on it and they will pay the rest off

I have been married once before. to a life sucking.... ok well i wont get into it. But i think i can help give you some perspective.. as to what you just posted about the living situation. let me give you this option. Please come to my house. I will kick you in the nuts repeatedly. you will give ME $5000.00 and then you dont have to get married. you will have the same effect, and be 10K richer in the end.

the Coug April 18th 2014, 12:37 pm

get out while you can, I miss my ex like a case of the itch. If you get married and move in with her and she gets pissed you have nothing and you still get to pay, I would leave immediately, say your good byes and go home...

10SHOTS April 18th 2014, 12:40 pm

steven gregoire wrote:
want me to invest 15000 dollars into it and it
Not have my name nowhere on it and they will pay the rest off

I have been married once before. to a life sucking.... ok well i wont get into it. But i think i can help give you some perspective.. as to what you just posted about the living situation. let me give you this option. Please come to my house. I will kick you in the nuts repeatedly. you will give ME $5000.00 and then you dont have to get married. you will have the same effect, and be 10K richer in the end.

I asked her what if she was to live with me do I charge you 15000 to be with me
She says it's not the same that it's her family but she agrees with them

the Coug April 18th 2014, 12:41 pm

10SHOTS wrote:
steven gregoire wrote:
want me to invest 15000 dollars into it and it
Not have my name nowhere on it and they will pay the rest off

I have been married once before. to a life sucking.... ok well i wont get into it. But i think i can help give you some perspective.. as to what you just posted about the living situation. let me give you this option. Please come to my house. I will kick you in the nuts repeatedly. you will give ME $5000.00 and then you dont have to get married. you will have the same effect, and be 10K richer in the end.

I asked her what if she was to live with me do I charge you 15000 to be with me
She says it's not the same that it's her family but she agrees with them

RUN cut your losses and RUN

Glenn M. April 18th 2014, 12:44 pm

steven gregoire wrote:Ill count my blessings. My Wife loves spending time with the whole family at the track. When im the one on the fence about buying a new Dominator, or gears for the dragster, she tells me to do whatever needs to be done to make it right. LUV that woman !

They are out there guys, don't settle !!!

WHERE?? Show me...

the Coug April 18th 2014, 1:09 pm

10SHOTS wrote:
steven gregoire wrote:
want me to invest 15000 dollars into it and it
Not have my name nowhere on it and they will pay the rest off

I have been married once before. to a life sucking.... ok well i wont get into it. But i think i can help give you some perspective.. as to what you just posted about the living situation. let me give you this option. Please come to my house. I will kick you in the nuts repeatedly. you will give ME $5000.00 and then you dont have to get married. you will have the same effect, and be 10K richer in the end.

I asked her what if she was to live with me do I charge you 15000 to be with me
She says it's not the same that it's her family but she agrees with them

1 question are you willing to give her $15000 and then give up everything you know and love to be with her?

there is one answer to this question and you have to make that decision....

jasonf April 18th 2014, 1:53 pm

It sounds like she thinks like Obama. What she deems "unnecessary" you should sell so that she can have the money to do what she wants with it. Marriage is give and take not all take.

If you don't want to boot her to the door right now you need to put your foot down and lay out the rules. I have found woman will push until you slam the door in their face and that is what it takes. Flat out tell her she goes before the car goes, accept it or move on and don't budge. She will decide if she wants to stay or not. She will become a better woman or someone you don't want to be with. It takes a long time and a lot of work to train a woman but it can be worth it in the end. .

56Tbird April 18th 2014, 2:56 pm

the Coug wrote:get out while you can, I miss my ex like a case of the itch. If you get married and move in with her and she gets pissed you have nothing and you still get to pay, I would leave immediately, say your good byes and go home...

It's a miracle!!! Me and Coug have agreed 100% on something!! Coug's advice here is spot on cheers

bruno April 18th 2014, 3:28 pm

im getting married tomorrow Very Happy

res0rli9 April 18th 2014, 3:33 pm

People Never learn Rolling Eyes

You know in baseball 3 strikes and your OUT.

I'd rather say I did then I do.
Ive never said I do and am happy as Hell.

bruno April 18th 2014, 3:35 pm

res0rli9 wrote:People Never learn
You know in baseball 3 strikes and your OUT.

I'd rather say I did then I do.
Ive never said I do and am happy as Hell.

I thought it was 3 times a charm Razz

res0rli9 April 18th 2014, 3:37 pm

bruno wrote:
res0rli9 wrote:People Never learn
You know in baseball 3 strikes and your OUT.

I'd rather say I did then I do.
Ive never said I do and am happy as Hell.

I thought it was 3 times a charm

Lets hope so for You anyway. Rolling Eyes

maverick April 18th 2014, 3:38 pm

bruno wrote:im getting married tomorrow

Any chance for a racecar? Smile

Glenn M. April 18th 2014, 3:51 pm

maverick wrote:
bruno wrote:im getting married tomorrow

Any chance for a racecar?

bruno April 18th 2014, 4:20 pm

maverick wrote:
bruno wrote:im getting married tomorrow

Any chance for a racecar?

nope sold everything ...... working on the new car ..... the other one would have been a money pit to make it run Wink

supervel45 April 18th 2014, 4:25 pm

windsor wrote:There are some bigger issues here than a race car and a tahoe. You need to sit down and talk...REAL talk about things, wants, needs from each other. There are six children involved here, who are the most important.

Jus' sayin

Sir, I have to respectfully disagree. This is the new way of thinking, and it has not been around all that long. All it does is let the kids run the household and divide the parents, and will lead to them (parents) dispising each other and all the children before it is over, his, her or their's. How does this help the children in the long run? It is a bill of goods, sold by the libbers and is a power grab gone horriably wrong, and has directly led to the high divorce rate in this Country since the 1960's. The order of thing's that used to work were God, Country, Husband, Wife, and then the Children, and they will be taken care of in that order. A house divided, will not stand for very long, and if it does it will not be pleasant. Even thinking Atheists/Agnostic's, reconize the second part of the theory, and some still practice it, with sucess. If you want spoiled selfish Brats, carry on with the new way, it has a proven sucess rate.

nuclearcobra April 18th 2014, 9:49 pm

When you said your not aloud to buy things for your kids and have it go to their moms house with them would be enough for me right there to snap , those are your babies , the hell with her telling you anything like that , I never had a single friend that had a girl with that kind of queen attitude and was happy , it always turned out to be a disaster in the end and very costly , and it says pretty much how and what she really thinks of you, and I'm not just talking about her saying sell the race car for a family car , forget she even said that , its the can't buy your kids this or that, I'll only spend my money on my kids , its me or the car, and for the record real woman support there family too, and you need to put 15k in her house and it can't be in your name at all , that's a bunch of shit man , you know what to do either say see ya or lay down the law and see if she says see ya , there's your test if she's a keeper right there in plain English , and all of the above she's already said is pretty much your answer. I wouldn't care how hot she was I wouldn't be able to stop laughing at her and her shit attitude .

scottke April 19th 2014, 12:17 am

steven gregoire wrote:Ill count my blessings. My Wife loves spending time with the whole family at the track. When im the one on the fence about buying a new Dominator, or gears for the dragster, she tells me to do whatever needs to be done to make it right. LUV that woman !

They are out there guys, don't settle !!!

She told me you needed a new intake!!! Cool

Larry T April 19th 2014, 12:33 am

bruno wrote:im getting married tomorrow

dave d April 19th 2014, 5:00 am

bruno wrote:im getting married tomorrow

Goor Luck Nick and Crangrads

DeepRoots April 19th 2014, 12:17 pm

In this particular situation, I just want you to think of another scenario.....

Once a week, let say every Saturday night, you hire a professional at $400-$500 for the evening.
Exactly how much cheaper would this be than your current situation?

As grandpa always said, "ya don't payem for the sex, ya payem to leave"

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